Gaming Safely Online
Online gaming is a huge part of children's lives today. Games offer fun, creativity, and even learning opportunities—but they also expose children to online risks such as inappropriate content, cyberbullying, chat with strangers, and pressure to make in-game purchases.
Benefits and Risks of Online Gaming
Gaming can help children develop coordination, problem-solving skills, and social connections. But without guidance, they may also encounter:
- In-game bullying: Negative interactions with other players, often in competitive or chat-enabled games.
- Exposure to violent or inappropriate content: Some games are rated for older players and may include content unsuitable for children.
- Contact with strangers: Many online games include open chat features that allow communication with unknown users.
- Spending pressure: In-game purchases and loot boxes can lead to unexpected bills or addictive behaviours.
For more on the pros and cons of online gaming, visit Internet Matters – Online Gaming.
Setting the Ground Rules
Having clear rules helps children develop healthy gaming habits. Discuss and agree on:
- What types of games are allowed (based on PEGI age ratings)
- When and how long they can play
- Who they are allowed to play with (friends only, private matches, etc.)
Use tools like Ask About Games for age rating information and family gaming advice.
Manage Chat and Communication
Games often include voice or text chat. Children may encounter bad language, bullying, or even grooming attempts through these features. To reduce risks:
- Disable or limit in-game chat features where possible
- Use friend-only settings on games and platforms
- Talk to your child about reporting and blocking inappropriate behaviour
See guidance on managing communication features at Childnet – Gaming.
Monitor Spending and In-App Purchases
Many games include the option to buy items, upgrades, or cosmetic features. These can lead to overspending or pressure from peers. To keep control:
- Disable in-app purchases or require parental approval
- Use spending limits or prepaid gift cards
- Talk to your child about the value of digital purchases and the importance of consent
Most platforms—like Xbox, PlayStation, and Nintendo—have parental controls to manage spending. Learn more at Internet Matters Gaming Console Guides.
Join In and Stay Involved
One of the best ways to understand your child’s gaming world is to participate in it. Sit down and play together, ask them to show you how the game works, or watch gameplay videos with them. This builds connection and helps you spot issues early.
Conclusion
Online gaming can be a positive and enriching experience with the right boundaries and guidance. By staying involved, setting limits, and using available tools, you can help ensure your child has a safe, balanced, and fun gaming experience.